We are giving our child within a very important gift by nurturing, encouraging, and protecting our intuition.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFKMTxfoX_Jix3go_Ya1W_wwRx_Cve81XxBf-zwKmA2JiDXDsuxEbCs6ZmcRVnlxgaSX1PY2JgOXoLmfq1fBd1hSWvVhKyfzckaDL7YIgJWtO3nBR4WmX3BCgC9SgYmhGWdKO8j81Y3JHK/s1600/inner-child+2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="148" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFKMTxfoX_Jix3go_Ya1W_wwRx_Cve81XxBf-zwKmA2JiDXDsuxEbCs6ZmcRVnlxgaSX1PY2JgOXoLmfq1fBd1hSWvVhKyfzckaDL7YIgJWtO3nBR4WmX3BCgC9SgYmhGWdKO8j81Y3JHK/s320/inner-child+2.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;">We are giving our child within a very important gift by nurturing, encouraging, and protecting our intuition. We are helping to look within for our truth, regardless of what others tell us. By nurturing your child withins intuition, we are empowering from within! We are empowering us to be true to ourself!</span>

We are giving our child within a very important gift by nurturing, encouraging, and protecting our intuition.

We are giving our child within a very important gift by nurturing, encouraging, and protecting our intuition. We are helping to look withi...

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Our child within when it feels the need to dissociate needs to jump up and down

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFKMTxfoX_Jix3go_Ya1W_wwRx_Cve81XxBf-zwKmA2JiDXDsuxEbCs6ZmcRVnlxgaSX1PY2JgOXoLmfq1fBd1hSWvVhKyfzckaDL7YIgJWtO3nBR4WmX3BCgC9SgYmhGWdKO8j81Y3JHK/s1600/inner-child+2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="148" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFKMTxfoX_Jix3go_Ya1W_wwRx_Cve81XxBf-zwKmA2JiDXDsuxEbCs6ZmcRVnlxgaSX1PY2JgOXoLmfq1fBd1hSWvVhKyfzckaDL7YIgJWtO3nBR4WmX3BCgC9SgYmhGWdKO8j81Y3JHK/s320/inner-child+2.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;">Our child within when it feels the need to dissociate needs to jump up and down  for one or two minutes, or dance to an energetic, happy song. Next, ask our child to close its eyes and place both feet firmly on the ground.<br /><br /> Breathe in and out very deeply and slowly and pretend that we are a tree. Tell ourselves to imagine the energy from the earth climbing up through our roots, our trunk, our branches, our leaves, and out into space.<br /><br />During this exercise, guide our child through this imagery one stage at a time, all the while asking the child within to breathe slowly in and out, until we feel cleared of all our dissociated energy.</span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://frasertrevor.blogspot.com/2015/05/dissociation-dissy-can-affect-our.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340506802_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://frasertrevor.blogspot.com/2015/05/dissociation-dissy-can-affect-our.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Dissociation( DISSY) can affect our perception, thinking, feeling, behaviour, body and memory.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://frasertrevor.blogspot.com/2015/05/heres-worst-part-of-dissociation-it.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/noimg_22_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://frasertrevor.blogspot.com/2015/05/heres-worst-part-of-dissociation-it.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Here's the worst part of dissociation: it keeps us re-living the things we're dissociating from.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://frasertrevor.blogspot.com/2015/05/dissociative-or-dissy-moments-occur.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340506804_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://frasertrevor.blogspot.com/2015/05/dissociative-or-dissy-moments-occur.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Dissociative or "DISSY MOMENTS" occur when we have continuing and repeated episodes of dissociation.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/05/exploring-sensationsexperience-of.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340891395_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/05/exploring-sensationsexperience-of.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Exploring the sensations/experience of dissociation is the current focus in the stages study it is uncomfortable.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/for-victims-of-trauma-experts-say.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340895637_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/for-victims-of-trauma-experts-say.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">For victims of trauma, experts say, dissociation is often lifesaving.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://recoverystages.blogspot.com/2015/05/dissociation-being-split-off-from-our.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340560783_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://recoverystages.blogspot.com/2015/05/dissociation-being-split-off-from-our.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Dissociation being split-off from our child within mimics recovery</a></li> </ul> </div>

Our child within when it feels the need to dissociate needs to jump up and down

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When repressed traumatic memories and events are acknowledged, felt, grieved, and freed—we become Recovered.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDMe57HgsjqWP5TYODxRAk2jcsu2vhD10F4tVr_Tkn0fKVKgKf41UWzY7Rog_4L1UQmKox7ERj77pikAuLdESUW67yEJH51m-CvQfXXNCXd2QH-NYbI4-yhK5Kb8UbjT4DcGyEVZMW7QaD/s1600/Child+within264.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDMe57HgsjqWP5TYODxRAk2jcsu2vhD10F4tVr_Tkn0fKVKgKf41UWzY7Rog_4L1UQmKox7ERj77pikAuLdESUW67yEJH51m-CvQfXXNCXd2QH-NYbI4-yhK5Kb8UbjT4DcGyEVZMW7QaD/s1600/Child+within264.jpeg" /></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /><br />Recovery, that overused and often distorted word, is the dissolution of the unconscious. When repressed traumatic memories and events are acknowledged, felt, grieved, and freed—we become Recovered. Our life becomes clear so that truth can flow through us.<br /><br />We’ve all have had moments of recovery. With unusual clarity, we see truth. Truth is no longer distorted through the filter of the disturbances of our past or the biases of our family and culture. Truth is revealed, clear as a bell, at least for a moment.<br /><br /><br />But sustaining this recovered state is a difficult task. To do so, we must do some work. I’m not suggesting tedious hours of repetitive prayers or dissociative mediation. Recovery is simpler—but much harder.<br /><br />Our task is to resolve the traumas buried in our unconscious, the traumas that imprison truth and entangle our life force and creativity. The disturbing wounds inflicted on us beginning in earliest childhood, even in the womb of a troubled mother in conflict with a father, are absorbed by the child and must be resolved so that we may live fully and honestly. We must see, feel, and grieve our traumatic history in order to clear the minds holding bin, the unconscious. When the unconscious is clear we are recovered.</span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/06/gentle-contact-with-child-within-our.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/347227273_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/06/gentle-contact-with-child-within-our.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Gentle contact with the child within. Our child within has often been ignored or banishes for a considerable time span.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivecontact.blogspot.com/2015/06/the-true-value-of-human-being-is.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/348006899_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivecontact.blogspot.com/2015/06/the-true-value-of-human-being-is.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The true value of a human being is determined by the measure and the sense in which they have obtained liberation from the self.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/intuition-is-not-result-of-diet-rituals.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/noimg_12_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/intuition-is-not-result-of-diet-rituals.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Intuition is not the result of diet, rituals, or wind chimes. It's the natural consequence of having self-esteem, the greatest power you can have.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/thank-you-for-making-me-better-stronger.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/344840475_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/thank-you-for-making-me-better-stronger.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">"THANK YOU FOR MAKING ME BETTER, STRONGER and showing me HOW POWERFUL I TRULY AM"?</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/06/recognising-our-own-interior-voice.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/347431759_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/06/recognising-our-own-interior-voice.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Recognising our own interior voice blaming and shaming, judging and creating stories of victimisation and pointing outwards</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/06/our-false-self-has-convinced-us-that-we.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/347434190_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/06/our-false-self-has-convinced-us-that-we.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Our false self has convinced us that we need to overcome the world as our false self sees it.</a></li> </ul> </div>

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At our conception, we are perfect. We are born imbued with truth, a spark of the divine

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwr-HE74wPeT1rzSSjQo6kWBGUkXLn9ZaYwJQmXM56Wl1-Py9erW9Ln7PJYLAbPhcvFoZDcnJzhtX8FBgjTWUXetIB8rKj7jU-WrWQqIAY_H7_VZCopOqttW6H_fELb5HK6MBDr8gaXdoQ/s1600/The+TEN+STAGES+OF+RECOVERY.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="131" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwr-HE74wPeT1rzSSjQo6kWBGUkXLn9ZaYwJQmXM56Wl1-Py9erW9Ln7PJYLAbPhcvFoZDcnJzhtX8FBgjTWUXetIB8rKj7jU-WrWQqIAY_H7_VZCopOqttW6H_fELb5HK6MBDr8gaXdoQ/s320/The+TEN+STAGES+OF+RECOVERY.png" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: medium; line-height: 19.2000007629395px;">At our conception, we are perfect. We are born imbued with truth, a spark of the divine. And no matter what happens to us on our life’s journey, at the core of each of us remains a true and perfect self.The Child Within. This is one of the mysteries of life and also one of the saving graces of human existence. No matter what traumas we endured during our childhood, even during our troubled days in the womb, our core remains inviolate, untainted, sacred, and pure.</span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/06/gentle-contact-with-child-within-our.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/347227273_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/06/gentle-contact-with-child-within-our.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Gentle contact with the child within. Our child within has often been ignored or banishes for a considerable time span.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivecontact.blogspot.com/2015/06/the-true-value-of-human-being-is.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/348006899_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivecontact.blogspot.com/2015/06/the-true-value-of-human-being-is.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The true value of a human being is determined by the measure and the sense in which they have obtained liberation from the self.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/intuition-is-not-result-of-diet-rituals.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/noimg_12_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/intuition-is-not-result-of-diet-rituals.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Intuition is not the result of diet, rituals, or wind chimes. 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The child’s presence gives us a clue to the essential truth that we are all missing

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeIckKW3LSPJ-ddtcMo8vrg5xxjKlwlLo672-hRKwQUbOkH3W7_39C-tw22d_0Vv92kTWbojW103BGdv43Mc8AGtBHPjg0a_FXgSexcC2iJaT3LrgfuMLz2pMV-jRXjJyMuh59UURDjdUs/s1600/1-1-HOB-random40.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="210" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeIckKW3LSPJ-ddtcMo8vrg5xxjKlwlLo672-hRKwQUbOkH3W7_39C-tw22d_0Vv92kTWbojW103BGdv43Mc8AGtBHPjg0a_FXgSexcC2iJaT3LrgfuMLz2pMV-jRXjJyMuh59UURDjdUs/s320/1-1-HOB-random40.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <div style="box-sizing: border-box; font-family: 'Segoe UI', 'Lucida Grande', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif; font-size: 15px;"> In Child within, we re-embark afresh on our lifes journey into the open secret of interacting with the world at large. The child’s presence gives us a clue to the essential truth that we are all have been missing.Contacting the child within for our recovery is a revolutionary act of faith in ourselves. Replacing our child in the midst of our recovery , is committing us to a belief ‘to a child within in our midst’ that ensure that this form of our personal recovery informs every aspect of our life .When we re-aline our <span style="background-color: white; font-family: georgia; font-size: 16px;">life, we start to find that our life is conspiring in our own best interest. What seems like a crisis is recovery working it's way into our life. Focus on our gift, the lesson and choose to believe that what's coming next is a greater understanding and embodiment of living our life's true purpose. </span></div> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/06/gentle-contact-with-child-within-our.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/347227273_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/06/gentle-contact-with-child-within-our.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Gentle contact with the child within. 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The child’s presence gives us a clue to the essential truth that we are all missing

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It's impossible for us to know who we are if you don't express our child within, learn its language, and respond to its needs

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8NbdLEV2wyiu37aX-1va4SQyXBzjTIcp-2iBNamkbnOVddV3VRrqBzYfPByO9LWVhJZkz6dqv84lpn8iEZnwzpJ8t7-czf1f4FYvB9HcVwLlHFAYRTUK2sbCVPlNt-I6gmjAbBLCol2CK/s1600/Child+within264.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="149" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8NbdLEV2wyiu37aX-1va4SQyXBzjTIcp-2iBNamkbnOVddV3VRrqBzYfPByO9LWVhJZkz6dqv84lpn8iEZnwzpJ8t7-czf1f4FYvB9HcVwLlHFAYRTUK2sbCVPlNt-I6gmjAbBLCol2CK/s200/Child+within264.jpeg" width="200" /></a></div> <br /><br />It's impossible for us to know who we are if you don't express our child within, learn its language, and respond to its needs<br /><br /> <br />And not just your self, I'm talking about your child within. That part of you that knows your truth, that wants life to be fulfilling, that part of you that might just be dying to express itself.<br /><br /> <br /><br />But if you do not express that part of yourself, then others won't be able to see it. And you won't be able to see how powerful that part of you truly is. Many of us keep our child within hidden because we are afraid that we are going to stir the pot too much. Or that we are going to be made wrong. Or that we are going to be judged, ridiculed or made fun of.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Perhaps we bought into a story that one of our parents, friends, teachers or family members told us. Something like, "You'll never be good at this or that." And so we shut down, and in that moment we think that they are putting us in our place, but really we are putting ourselves there by agreeing with them.<br /><br /> <br /><br />When we show our child within, WILL shake things up.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Some will applaud us. Others will shun us. The truth about life is that we either grow together or we grow apart. And since we are constantly growing if we are on the Path to Recovery, that means that some people are in our lives for a season, or a reason or a lifetime. Celebrate those that you can journey with; they will be there for your whole life. And don't be afraid to let go of those folks who aren't growing with you, sometimes it's best to Love certain people from afar. And that's okay too.<br /><br /> <br /><br />The thing that we want to keep our minds set on is expressing our child within. This takes study. This WILL rock the boat, and this is probably the most important decision we could ever make in our lives. Because everything else revolves around how we see ourselves and then, as a result, how others see us.<br /><br /> <br /><br />If you aren't seeing your ideal life manifesting around you, ask yourself, "What do I REALLY believe about me and what’s possible in my life?" "Am I expressing my child within?" 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Are there rebukes from our childhood that are still ringing in our ears?

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqjQMl7DCrFjpHwB0rLBfgfmwVkRVZnvwToR0jd7GZbaSysTEwVrEZswG9KRBOrc8Zp2l6_0jLmmMzytfmaeWxzCdm7fERB0uWFLpxqnJb0W49iPNj7Ik2BAQAkbqFQvUThGqw3T1KZAhb/s1600/1-1-The+stage+enlightenment.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="214" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqjQMl7DCrFjpHwB0rLBfgfmwVkRVZnvwToR0jd7GZbaSysTEwVrEZswG9KRBOrc8Zp2l6_0jLmmMzytfmaeWxzCdm7fERB0uWFLpxqnJb0W49iPNj7Ik2BAQAkbqFQvUThGqw3T1KZAhb/s320/1-1-The+stage+enlightenment.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <br /><br />Are there rebukes from our childhood that are still ringing in our ears? Abuse is lack of respect. Now that you’re getting in touch with your child within, you need to respond to them differently. Here’s what we mean:<br />Sit down and listen. Listening to others is only one of many ingredients that will help you reach your goals. Yes, there’s a time for us to sit down and listen but there’s also a time for us to stand up and speak. A time for us to follow instructions; a time for us to follow our intuitive voice. A time for us to listen to the voices of others; a time for us to listen to our own intuitive voice.We have to start to discern the language of the child within and our own harsh parental voice of control and abuse.<br /><br /><br />Pay attention to the rules. As an adult, there are still some rules that are super important to pay attention to. Stop at stop signs. Pay your income taxes. Don’t text and drive. Yet, many other rules are at your discretion. Color outside the lines. (Be the next Pollack.) Keep a messy desk. (Einstein did.) Do your homework whenever the muse hits you. If you are still being a good little kid and paying attention to all the rules, don’t be surprised if instead of getting a gold star, you get no appreciation or recognition.<br />That’s dangerous! Don’t do it! You don’t need to court danger just for the fun of it. Or maybe you do. Isn’t that what’s exciting about skiing, racing, and a host of other sports activities?<br /><br />Don’t you want to take risks in your career? Or in other pursuits? Isn’t there a time to muster up your courage and enter the dark woods to explore new territory? Play it too safe and you’ll likely become buggy about how boring, tedious and tiresome your life is.<div> <br />Slow down! Be quiet! Kids have an abundance of energy that adults can’t always deal with. Hence, kids are often bawled out when their exuberance becomes noisy, nerve-racking or ear-shattering. Though adults don’t have the energy of kids, if you’re always on the go, others may suggest (or demand) that you stop and slow down. Is this good advice? Maybe, if you’re neurotically driven to always be doing something. But it could be that you’re just a high-energy person who likes to be involved in many things. If so, go for it. And when your favourite scold tells you to “slow down,” you can always respond with “chill out.”<div> <br />Stop whining. Most kids have upgraded whining to an art form. Because nothing is as annoying as persistent whining, all but the most stoic of parents give in to their kids just to shut them up. Now that you’re an adult, should whining be totally off base? Not necessarily. Life can be exasperating. You’ve had a tough day; you need to find some way to let off steam. You whine a little; you tell your story to a few empathetic people; you feel better instantly. Amazingly simple and effective therapy.<br /><br />But habitual whining? That’s a whine of a different color. It grates on others’ nerves, creates a victim mentality and holds you back from finding more mature ways to express yourself. So when problems arise, instead of whining, either shrug them off, look for solutions, or address the situation with a caring, confident, competent voice.</div> </div> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://recoverystage.blogspot.com/2015/05/its-no-secret-that-one-of-most-common.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/344103162_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://recoverystage.blogspot.com/2015/05/its-no-secret-that-one-of-most-common.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">It's no secret that one of the most common effects of child abuse are that most abused children grow up to be alcoholics or addicts</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://recoverystage.blogspot.com/2015/05/children-who-were-abused-grow-into.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/noimg_44_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://recoverystage.blogspot.com/2015/05/children-who-were-abused-grow-into.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Children who were abused grow into teens and adults that feel flawed, inferior, worthless, hopeless, inadequate, dirty, overwhelmed with deep shame, depressed, anxious, extreme loneliness, helpless and afraid. 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Are there rebukes from our childhood that are still ringing in our ears?

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Our false self has convinced us that we need to overcome the world as our false self sees it.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMn6oIP5-V0eASCwHEF7rbkDHqitPLYMBhZuNi-JSdhiV0bZiVlCV_rSusnX92XpkvsnsyljluZnSRfH-ro0sV2plMecK_k9K-3q_fToZAOWYRrhnVLqfk7ka27GFeNPP6niFnJuwoHiM/s1600/10710919_10152757192388615_3531926343357915073_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMn6oIP5-V0eASCwHEF7rbkDHqitPLYMBhZuNi-JSdhiV0bZiVlCV_rSusnX92XpkvsnsyljluZnSRfH-ro0sV2plMecK_k9K-3q_fToZAOWYRrhnVLqfk7ka27GFeNPP6niFnJuwoHiM/s320/10710919_10152757192388615_3531926343357915073_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;">Our false self has convinced us that we need to overcome the world as our false self sees it.  keeping us  hooked up in the soul-destroying, impossible fight of trying to control anything that isn’t us.<br />our self convinces us – only someone else can rescue us from our traumas because we don’t have the capabilities (we’re too worthless to achieve it).<br />our ego convinces us it’s someone in particular’s fault that we are damaged – and this person is therefore responsible – even though no outer person can ever rescue us from ourself, let alone an unconscious individual who hasn’t yet dealt with their own inner traumas.<br />our false self convinces us – because of what happened to us, our life is forever broken.<br />our false sense is the force causing us to show up in life with defences that ensure us will hook into and be attracted to and attract everything that we don’t want to experience.<br />our false self ensures the very things we attempt to protect ourself from keep getting drawn into our life over and over again, and / or the only way to avoid that happening is to blame “the outside,” close down, disconnect even more from life and try to escape the agony of our child withins even more painful defences of fear, shame and blame.<br />The absolute formula is this – The more unattended trauma we have, the more activated our false self is.<br />We who exhibit the biggest masks are the people with the most disowned inner traumas.<br /><br /><br />-</span><div style="height: 0px;"> x</div> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; 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Our false self has convinced us that we need to overcome the world as our false self sees it.

Our false self has convinced us that we need to overcome the world as our false self sees it.  keeping us  hooked up in the soul-destroyin...

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