One of the main reasons why we see so many people unhappy when we start studying with them

<div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjV-R9VN1kwk3kxtN5b5lISPsr2RJWcfdFquGuh2d_R4QrxDDm3geSlAfL_9z9ir85ApkAfYqbwTZ3TkJ-aUe5Q0rx2T6dQrki-SMtQJ2PMUoJvFLoslxusEc3AD5Ml5_ilmgHAg1FozVA7/s1600/304576_167883410002376_707153215_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjV-R9VN1kwk3kxtN5b5lISPsr2RJWcfdFquGuh2d_R4QrxDDm3geSlAfL_9z9ir85ApkAfYqbwTZ3TkJ-aUe5Q0rx2T6dQrki-SMtQJ2PMUoJvFLoslxusEc3AD5Ml5_ilmgHAg1FozVA7/s320/304576_167883410002376_707153215_n.jpg" width="236" /></a></div> <span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">One of the main reasons why we see so many people unhappy when we start studying with them is because they are so focused on the reasons and causes of their problem, the pathology.</span></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br clear="none" /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br clear="none" /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br clear="none" /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">And while it’s all well and good to know where our problem came from, and very important to know where our problem came from, if you only stay focused on that (the pathology), we  will not recover.</span></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br clear="none" /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br clear="none" /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br clear="none" /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">To recover, in any way – medically, mentally, physically, emotionally – we’ve got to have an ideal outcome or scenario or destination that we are heading towards.</span></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br clear="none" /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br clear="none" /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br clear="none" /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">This isn’t to say that we should become SO fixed on an outcome that we are inflexible and rigid – on the contrary! we can believe in our life-flow. But, if all we do is spend time focusing on what the problem is, we leave no room open for the solution.</span></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br clear="none" /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br clear="none" /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br clear="none" /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">This isn’t as easy as “being positive”. We would not be so naive as to say that a positive attitude is enough to make you feel better or heal – especially from extreme illness. However, what I am saying is that without an enquiring positive and optimistic outlook, the possibility of healing and recovering is almost 0%.</span></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br clear="none" /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br clear="none" /></span></div> <div style="background-color: white; color: #0b175f;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br clear="none" /></span></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: white; color: black;">When we focus only on the problem – we get MORE of the problem. And it becomes not only the story of our life, but also our IDENTITY. And when our identify – as in - who you are is now the proble</span>m, the likelihood of recovery reduces significantly.<br /><br /><br /><br />If we wish to recover, if we wish to live an extraordinary life, if we wish for miracles and to be able to SEE solutions – we must go looking for them. This means that we become aware of the pathology, understand the pathology and then set our minds  on to an outcome of recovery, rather than on the pain of the problem.<br /><br /><br />This is not a prescription for a recovery bypass of our pain. We must feel our pain fully in order for it to be grieved. We cannot will our pain away or just wish for life to get better.<br /><br />The body responds to what your mind feeds it. Healing is a medical process, an emotional process, a physical process. Our attempts at healing can only be started if we return to our source our child within.<br /><br /><br />Anyone who has come back from massive failure or had a recovery in his or her life operated this way.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Returning to our childhood.<br /><br />Can you? 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One of the main reasons why we see so many people unhappy when we start studying with them

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