our self convinces us – only someone else can rescue us from our traumas because we don’t have the capabilities (we’re too worthless to achieve it).
our ego convinces us it’s someone in particular’s fault that we are damaged – and this person is therefore responsible – even though no outer person can ever rescue us from ourself, let alone an unconscious individual who hasn’t yet dealt with their own inner traumas.
our false self convinces us – because of what happened to us, our life is forever broken.
our false sense is the force causing us to show up in life with defences that ensure us will hook into and be attracted to and attract everything that we don’t want to experience.
our false self ensures the very things we attempt to protect ourself from keep getting drawn into our life over and over again, and / or the only way to avoid that happening is to blame “the outside,” close down, disconnect even more from life and try to escape the agony of our child withins even more painful defences of fear, shame and blame.
The absolute formula is this – The more unattended trauma we have, the more activated our false self is.
We who exhibit the biggest masks are the people with the most disowned inner traumas.
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